So I have to tell the world some stuff! I am really getting upset about some stuff. It doesn't happen a lot, but when it does, I want to hurt someone...
Okay, here goes nothing! When people are talking about adoption, and they use the wrong words. Like "give up", "gave away", "give away", "not hard", "are you going to adopt her back", "so you are her REAL mom", "so they are not her real parents are they?", "so are you going to be her mom when she is 18?". Any person that knows anything can see why those are wrong. Yes I am her mom... Her birthmother. No, I am not going to adopt her back... Why would I even have done it in the first place? I did not give her away... Did my belly have a "For Free" sign on it? Was she for sale? NOPE! I don't think so! I did not "give up" either, this one is my favorite! It seriously makes me laugh! g-i-v-e u-p... Am I a sissy? Did I turn my back on something that I didn't want? The answer is NO!!! Her parents are always going to be her parents. They are mom and dad, whats so hard to understand about that? I gave birth, I have a mothers love for her... But they are her parents forever and always! And what could be more perfect then that? Who would not want Tamara to be their mom? I do!!! I am amazed that she gets to have the parents that she does! I am pretty much jealous! I love it though!!!
Well I am done! I just needed to put that out there!
Love you all!!!
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